Getin’ Old Ain’t for Sissies!

When you were young and full of energy, didn’t you wonder why those old people slowed down and just “sat”?

Many people worked so damned hard to get everything they thought they needed for now, but lost sight of what they would need in their retirement.  And many worked hard to provide a future for their kids, putting their own future on the back burner! Retirement hit them in the face before they had time to secure their own future.

They, like many older folks, got stuck depending on Social Insecurity! And if they worked in low-paying jobs, they are out of luck! Their monthly check will not do much for their security. Everything goes up and up, and their check doesn’t! If the COLA is raised 2% or 3%, the cost of the Medicare Insurance Premium goes up!

BTW, that cute little card you get from your Insurance Plan to help you pay for your drugs and other things you want on your quarterly stipend, or to pay for your drugs, is a Credit Card. They will not admit it is a credit card. But the name of the Bank is on the back; it should be a giveaway, and if you do a little computer work, you can discover the interest rate.

If you are lucky and smart, you own their home free and clear! And if you are smarter, you live within your means and keep it free and clear. That may mean not a $100 dinner every week and no DoorDash dinners every night, but it will mean cooking at home. I will also mean last year’s movies, not premieres.

Here is another RED FLAG: All the Mortgage Companies advertise a HELOC as if it is the most wonderful thing ever! And it isn’t bad if you know what it is!

It is a loan secured by the equity of your house! If you treat it like an unsecured credit card, you will buy your house again soon, or lose it in foreclosure.

I just saw an ad on FB! Just for viewing your rate on a Home Equity Loan you are entered in a Home Equity Loan Sweepstakes! Guess what your chances of winning the 50K are VS the million emails and calls trying to sell you on the value of the HELOC?

Enough about the trials and tribulations of business, let’s have some fun!

My first book was written in 2016, but the inspiration was in 1975 when I started in real estate, and many of the people are characters from that time; I just changed the names to

protect the guilty!  Maye West Mysteries Book 1: Murder on Lake Haverly

This book tells the story of what it was like being a woman in the Man’s world of Real Estate in the 70s! I was met by the men with the statement, “Great, a woman to cook for us!” And this tall drink of water meant it. He had a large salmon filet on the counter waiting for this “little Woman to cook it for them.

They went hungry that day and all the other days. Read the book to find out the fun I had dealing with them and other men in the business.

It is available on http://www.brendacolbathbooks.com and books.by/brendacolbath, and is distributed to the following platforms: Apple Books, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, Everand, Smashwords, Tolino OverDrive, bibliotheca, Baker & Taylor, BorrowBox, Hoopla, Vivlio, Palace Marketplace, Odilo, Gardners, and Amazon.

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Biography Creating worlds, characters, and wielding power like a madwoman, making my characters happy, sad, angry, and some of them with no redeeming qualities. I probably shouldn’t admit this, but I sometimes laugh out loud when I am writing a scene, and I have been known to cry when one of my favorites has to die. I am a left-handed Gemini, what do you expect? Reading bedtime stories to my two children until they fell asleep or until they just told me to go away, was fun. Making up wild stories for my grandchild, and creating Halloween costumes from Cowboys to a Dragon, was another favorite thing to do. I missed that so much when they were grown, that I started writing. My yearly newsletters frequently were drafted third-person by my Love Birds, Miranda our motorhome, and by Sir Fit the White Knight, our faithful Honda. Throughout the years, some of my creative talents centered around writing letters of complaint expressing my displeasure with services or products. One crucial, at least to my Son, was a note to our local school bus driver petitioning her to allow him back on the bus. He was kicked off for making an obscene gesture at his buddy. I reminded her that it was not directed at her, and that “obscenity can be in the eye of the beholder,” kids use that gesture as a greeting. He rode the bus until he graduated. I loved driving my English teacher crazy. Leaving a “continued next week” at the end of my five handwritten pages required each week. He was one of many people that suggested I “do something about my writing.” I graduated from the School of Hard Knocks at the top of my class. After 30 years, in the trenches as a Real Estate Professional, I have found that truth is stranger than fiction. My books are filled with characters I met in that profession. Their names were changed to protect the guilty. Others were from people we met traveling around the country in Miranda, our Motorhome. I am married nearly 60 years to the love of my life, Shirl, and partner-produced two exceptionally talented children, and one grandchild who is our pride and joy.

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